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Old Jun 26, 2015, 01:13 AM
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight View Post
So for me it's like, "This person genuinely understands me!" And I like feeling understood, so I want to be close to that person in some way. Does that make sense? I have no idea if there's some kind of transference term for that.
I think this is the voodoo and wilyness that stopdog tries to stay away from. For me, i call it teamwork. Its the spoonful of sugar that makes the medicine go down. That you catch more flies with honey than vinegar. These ts are just facilitators to our life changes. Just because you get a good meal at a restaurant, you dont marry the chef. Usually!