Thank you. I do tent to assume that T "gets it" when I strongly imply at an issue, only to be surprised when we are on a different page.
However, since I think therapy is helping me in other aspects, I'll probably deny any romantic feelings if she asks (which I doubt she would). The problem with getting psycodynamic therapy is having to start a relationship from nill - I am very picky about therapists and I don't think I can let my guard down to this extent again (it took me a LONG time).
Ah, what an unpleasant bind...
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Originally Posted by ruh roh
I agree with hankster's confusion (but totally get the Uncle Bill/Jody scenario) and growly's observation. It doesn't seem that CBT is going to be helpful, and also...I don't see anything romantic about the issue and would probably see a need to be more clear with the therapist (who, if she gets it, will also probably see that psychodynamic is a better fit).
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