Thank you. I do tent to assume that T "gets it" when I strongly imply at an issue, only to be surprised when we are on a different page.

However, since I think therapy is helping me in other aspects, I'll probably deny any romantic feelings if she asks (which I doubt she would). The problem with getting psycodynamic therapy is having to start a relationship from nill - I am very picky about therapists and I don't think I can let my guard down to this extent again (it took me a LONG time).

Ah, what an unpleasant bind...