I guess what I meant by that is that if a woman seems in any way "masculine" to me it is a HUGE turn-off. I'm only attracted to women who are extremely feminine-- which is somewhat hard to find.

I'm the opposite; if chemistry isn't there immediately, it never develops for me. With all of my long-term relationships, I was interested in them within the first five minutes of meeting them. I've tried dating someone great who I didn't have chemistry with in the hopes that it would develop probably four or five times-- and it just never did. I've also never developed a crush on a friend/colleague over time. I don't know why I work the way I do; for me, it's just instant or it's not.