More or less the same here. In the past I have often tried to do for others what they should be doing for themselves.

To stop doing for others and start doing for myself is extremely hard.

One of the things I have found interesting is this also effects my interests. I feel i found that i will be interested in stuff that other people like. I will do stuff with people because THEY like doing certain things. But when it comes time to have my own interests and to do things I want, like, and enjoy then I will draw a blank.

Its like I was built to live as and extention of someone else and not as an Independant being. But I guess that kinda is the gist of codependancy.