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Old Aug 10, 2015, 10:16 AM
Anonymous200320
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I cannot imagine a therapist making that kind of comment. I suspect it would be grounds for reporting them, where I live. Therapists are supposed to be neutral and leave their personal opinions outside the room. (As a point of comparison, my therapist has commented on how attractiveness is a construct which is not only about looks, and that somebody who is unattractive in their own eyes might not necessarily be unattractive to somebody else - those are nonjudgmental and neutral comments based on actual facts, and that's what I'm looking for in a therapist.)

But then, I would run away pretty quickly from a therapist who commented on my looks or clothing in any way, much less if he was to give me compliments, and from what most other people on these boards say, that makes me unusual.