Just because someone comes into your life, it doesn't mean that you have to accept a relationship out of it. There is always the word NO & having values SET or even CAST in CONCRETE that you don't allow yourself to go there no matter how much the temptation is.

When we allow ourselves to get involved with a person who is married, we are the one that opens the door to getting hurt.....not them. It may take personal strength & determination to stand strong in not going in that direction but we are the only ones that can stop doing the things that we know are wrong......& there is nothing that stops us from starting that at any point in our life