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Originally Posted by eskielover
Just because someone comes into your life, it doesn't mean that you have to accept a relationship out of it. There is always the word NO & having values SET or even CAST in CONCRETE that you don't allow yourself to go there no matter how much the temptation is.
When we allow ourselves to get involved with a person who is married, we are the one that opens the door to getting hurt.....not them. It may take personal strength & determination to stand strong in not going in that direction but we are the only ones that can stop doing the things that we know are wrong......& there is nothing that stops us from starting that at any point in our life
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I absolutely agree with you but situations aren't always same.
What if the man is a very good friend of yours? Will you be as strong to reject the person knowing that he is going through tough time or will you try to help them to the extent you can?
We do things we don't want to do for those whom we care about. It is always easier to say in retrospect that I wish I wouldn't have done so because at that point we see our efforts didn't do any good. But, when actually we are facing a situation we always say let us risk something if it gives some good output. And at many a times you want good things for those you really care about even at your own expense. And that is when boundaries can't be set on concrete.