Hi

I know it's a tough question but I can't decide if I should even consider
Having a child at my age or not?
To complicate matters I cannot have kids so we would need a surrogate
Or adopting. So it would be having a kid at 45 or so
Not to mention, my lifestyle is not conducive to having kids
I'm overweight, basically lazy, have no friends, no hobbies and I think a fairly healthy well rounded person is important to raise a kid, plus I don't drive a car which is a big problem what if they got hurt how would I help them
Get to a hospital? Drive them to soccer etc
I'm not sure I want to or can overcome these hurdles
Please help me with my decision, having bipolar disorder has
Made this choice so hard, my marriage is going to be in some question as well
If the answer is no