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Originally Posted by Cats4
Thank you all so much for taking the time to write to me. I do appreciate it more than you know. It's so hard, I am so so disappointed about this. Only my best friend knows what I'm dealing with - with him. However, she is a big social drinker, probably on verge of alcoholism herself - but, I don't think ever to that point. So, she only gets it a little bit.
My family... I haven't told. They all think he's this great guy, the same guy I thought originally. They're so happy for me... I was happy for me. It's so so sad. I can't believe I'm in this position, and why am I even sad when he's so nasty?
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Meant to say - consider going to Al Anon.
Find a Meeting It helped me SO MUCH. It was hard to because I am not big on groups and did not want to talk about what was going on. I don't trust people easily. I just sat the first few meetings, they don't make you talk. People were saying stuff that I thought and had NEVER said aloud. Al Anon changed my life for the better.