He likes to be chased, he likes to flirt. That's all. Just because everyone noticed it doesn't mean he was pursuing a relationship. Actually, even if he said he was interested it doesn't mean he really wanted it, who knows? His actions speak clear, actually he is pretty clear.



I'm yet to see an avoidant who is a player or I don't know what you mean by "avoidant", but not wanting a relationship is not the same of avoiding one.

I personally have a hard time dealing with people who flirt and lead everybody on, but, tbh, I don't consider most players to be selfish or avoidants. They want to date, to flirt, don't want to committ and let it clear to everyone without bothering with what others may think. Some people can put up with this and others can't, the latter shouldn't let themselves on. It's quite simple.