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Originally Posted by ruby2011
I'm asking if it's common for coworkers to react unfavorably to that person. These coworkers don't know of any conditions the person may have. Btw, if u don't mind, can you describe those particular ppl? What reactions do they get?
I remember when I was doing product demonstration and my coworker was stationed near me on the sales floor. We were by the coffee aisle.
Her: is anyone making coffee? I smell it.
Me: I don't see anyone making coffee. It's probably the beans. They're everywhere.
Her: could be...
Me: coffee beans give off that smell too.
Her: well it's not a constant smell, just on and off
Me: if it's not constant smell, then they're not making coffee.
She never talked to me again. How was I supposed to know I argued with her at that moment? A handful of ppl told me I was rude in that dialogue. Now multiply that few times a day, every day. I just don't appreciate anyone reacting badly.
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It does sound a bit argumentative. Not really mean but just not pleasant. Not a big deal but do you always interact in this manner?
I have no time right now to describe interactions as I am at work on 5 min break, but overall people avoid such folks unless they know it's certain conditions that cause them to behave such way. Then they might be more patient with the person but again they would probably stir away. I don't have colleagues like that as we wouldn't survive on the job if we talk to people this way as it is antagonizing. But I understand that social interaction that we take for granted just isn't easy for many people. That's what i do for a living
If you do have a condition that makes your social interactions difficult, do you work on it in therapy or otherwise? Are you receiving any help through therapy or medical etc? Is there anyone who can model some interactions for you
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