It's because you aren't letting yourself see that person in the mirror. I can understand that. To offset my lack of confidence in looks, I learn a lot of new skills with electronics. That way I'll find my sense of worth in my actions and abilities.

Only advice I can give is that even though your mind is telling you they may be lying, let your heart be warmed by it anyways. Just remind yourself that even if they are lying they still said it to you. That counts for something!

You're a wonderful person, it can be hard to see that but don't give up. ^.^

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