I posted this thread this morning when I was upset. I did not really word it properly. Understand that I have been dealing with a lot of depression and anxiety, and that I have very poor self esteem. Throughout my marriage I have taken a lot of things the wrong way. My feelings are hurt very easily. There are some things that I have been upset with my husband about over the years, but they are not the types of things that should break up a marriage. He does not expect me to change; I have always expected myself to change.