He's come up with a few reasons as to why he thinks I should have one and he should have the other. One reason being that if we do the shared custody and say I have them one month then he has them the next he will have to constantly adjust his budget and scheduling. I don't see a problem in that plan honestly. I don't know if he's trying to get out of paying child support or not. And yes I did bring it up to him that if it were to be the way he wants it our kids won't know each other really and I don't want that to happen. I tried to have a good conversation with him the other day about it and he is dead set on doing it his way and in the end I just got aggravated. A part of me just wants the courts to decide because we aren't going to in my eyes.