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Originally Posted by rcat
She won't go to therapy but you can. Perhpas they can give you some great advise on how to deal with this. If it is validation for making a decision they can help you with that too.
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Believe me , I have been in therapy for almost 45 years.
She came with me to marriage counseling ONCE in 40 years. She just won't share how she REALLY feels with anyone. She's too busy plotting revenge.
But I finally got that validation your talking about and it made me realize how I was
being manipulated for so long. End result was I finally was able to end the marriage . And believe me it was painful ,for me anyway, cause I have feelings. But I finally got away from miss perfect.
What goes around comes around as they say.
Point of all this : If you can't communicate with someone there could be many reasons. But if it's a supposedly " loved one " you can be sure there is probably something being hidden and not wanted to be talked about.