when i am feeling more like just 'me,' it's easier to use 'i.' i've rarely let 'we' slip out loud and said it more in ways that could have fit to mean 'anyone.' personally isn't an issue for me. it's more used in my head though when talking/deciding things, etc. and a variety of things depending.

when one of you is there maybe a bit stronger than another (if that happens), do you not use 'i'?

how do you differentiate between each other if you don't use 'i'?

i think if i used 'we' more when i feel blended, it would confuse me more because i still have separation between them and i (well, unless blended or feeling one stronger). but when blended, no one knows who they are, so it's a way for me to remind myself of who i am even though they still exist too. it doesn't take away from them still existing.