Panty, I would do the proper thing and wait until your divorce is final before dating. This will be a good testing ground to see if this man is willing to wait for you. If he is not then you saved yourself a lot of heartache. If he is willing to wait then you truly have been blessed. In the meantime work on things for yourself. Being single is not all that bad, it is putting yourself first which is probably more of what you need right now. tc