Hello SoScorpio: Well... I certainly understand what you're talking about. My view is that those around us... family, friends, etc. really don't want anything to do with our mental health issues. They have their own problems & they'd really prefer we just kept ours to ourselves. So from my perspective, what I would suggest is going on here is that your bf really just doesn't want anything to do with any of this. And his responses to your questions are his way of avoiding having to be involved. The anger you're sensing is the result of his feeling that he has been unable to figure out a way to escape. I suppose this is a bit of a harsh analysis. But it is my perspective based on my personal experience.