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Originally Posted by divine1966
What happens when you are with someone with kids is that at any point they might move in full time for whatever reason.
My ex and I had adult kids when we've met but one of his turned out to have failure to launch and moved back in with us. My ex was recovering alcoholic at the time and relapsed right away. Things went sour with her there really quick. It was so awful that I think I still have PTSD after living with her. I only survived a year and I was done
Your situation is different though as they are minors. My ex didn't have to let her move in and let her live off us but your BF has to be a parent. I personally do not want men with minor kids and wouldn't budge on that.
Think it through and do what feels right for YOU.
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That sounds horrible!
It's hard enough to deal with a relapsing alcoholic, let alone that + adult daughter living at home too. This is pretty much my worst nightmare. My bf is two years sober and I do worry that the stress might cause him to relapse. He's worried about having both kids in the house himself, and he does know how difficult the 11 year old is.