I never worried about them until I read all the posts here on boundaries. My T has never used the word "boundary". She has said things like " if you start calling me every night or something we will have to figure out why " or "I don't usually do x but it depends on.the circumstances".

I already worried about being "too needy" but "boundaries" gave that a name.

I'm still not sure I understand them as some Ts seem to use "boundaries" as a fall back excuse any time they are uncomfortable with things. Even when my T has changed things she never talked about rules or boundaries just what she felt she was or wasn't able to do
But she has never taken anything away . she has changed expectations for responses etc

I definitely worry more about boundaries reading on here though at this point I can't see much of anything I could do.that would cause a big dust up unless I.had some kind of unexpected break down.