I was going to congratulate you too as we share getting married in 2016. I am getting married in May.

I can't justify a congrats until you get out of this control freaks claws. Then I will congratulate you on taking care of YOU!

Too many red flags and truly a view into the rest of your life.

My fiance makes all the money. I am on disability. He is free to spend his money as he sees as long as our bills are paid and I can grocery shop.

Yes large purchases are discussed, like he just recently bought a new to him truck, weighing the pros and cons. In this case the purchase was for our safety.

We both have access to our bank accounts. It is our money. Flair ups occur but we solve them. No ONE person has all the say.

She has issues that need to be dealt with before she will ever be able to sustain a long term relationship. As do you. Do you want this to be your only marriage or are you ok with divorce?

Seriously get counselling together and separate then decide if marrying in right. Weddings can be postponed or at worse cancelled. Ruining your self esteem and possibly your life well thats (lost train of thought sorry). Oh not to mention if you do go through with things as they are and you have a kid. Yikes!

Take care of yourself. You are likely young with your whole life ahead of you.