hi,

I am writing for help, on behalf of my wife. She is brilliant, artistic, loves to talk, socialize, determined and stays very focused if she wants to, though she is bit volatile and cannot continue anything for too long. She usually does not have any problem in facing job interview, securing herself the necessary skill for job/career, she also is usually topper or compete pretty well if the job requires any training, but everything fails when she is deployed by any employer in field of real work and that is when she loses will, she thinks too much over it, complains, have some physical signs like losing weight, getting bit anxious (but never too much), body pain mainly to her arms or legs (specifically legs ; a special note, she does not complain leg pain if she goes for long walk) or gets nauseous due to travel (she has motion sickness though I think it is motion sickness with positional vertigo) and this is when I ask her to quit since I cannot afford her problems on my conscious though I try very hard as I do not want her to go into state of depression (she usually bickers over small trivial matters when she is not working, she gets depressed very easily when she is not doing anything except being housewife).

I myself have tried various options to treat her (I am not psychiatrist, but being ...hmmm medical enthusiast) ....but running out of options here....please could you suggest me a path to make her more focused. Any kind of suggestion from anyone is welcome.....