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Originally Posted by fantasyland
My husband is not growing. He is 36 years old and still does not know how to take care of bills, save money or be responsible. I have been telling him for the last 2 years that I need more out of this relationship. We have been together for 10 years, but I no longer wish to be married to a 20 year old immature young adult. We have conversed about my wishes for an adult relationship but its just not happening. He never and i mean NEVER tells me his thoughts, wishes, desires or anything related to his emotions. I sometimes feel like Im left in the dark. I am feeling that I need a Man. 2 years is to long for me to wait to see if he grows. Finding myself not willing to participate anymore in something where I feel stuck and cant move forward.
Any thoughts would be great.
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According to you, he lacks basic budgeting skills and is bad at communicating.
If that's all, and unless you haven't told us everything, all I can say is that I've seen worse.
If you're not happy with this person then why are you wasting your time? Why insist on something that you know is not going to work?
My opinion is: it's best for you and for him if you both go your own ways.