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Originally Posted by AllHeart
Why does your t need you to confront your abuser? I do not believe there has to be confrontation. Victims whose abusers have passed on cannot have confrontation yet they find ways to heal. Even if confrontation was necessary, you've stated you are not ready for it. Your t should understand and respect that, and back off.
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That is EXACTLY what I said, if she were dead, I wouldn't be able to address her personally about it, so does that mean I could never heal? He said that yes, there are other ways. But part of my problem IS allowing people to bully me, so I do need to find my "voice". I get that, but not with her, not now.