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Originally Posted by Naturecete
What feelings are you having to put aside? Why do you care that others bring up his ex if that is what they know? (You are with him now). If this bothers you, maybe you should find someone who has been alone a good long while. He is bound to have other more stressful things for you about him since he has two boys and it appears everyone knows and shares his business. Good luck  |
I'm sorry it took so long to come back. I had to think about all these questions. I talked to him and honestly things are not okay. We both have so much baggage.
To answer some of your questions...
1. I'm having to put my feelings aside when it comes to feeling like I don't matter. If he's with me now, why bring his ex up?
2. I care because she wasn't a good person. And even if that's all they know I think it's disrespectful. She did a lot of damage and it just changes the mood when we're all together.
3. Finding someone who's been alone for awhile is unrealistic. And his son's are adults and married. I agree with the "everyone shares his business " though. Maybe I should end it.
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