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Originally Posted by SarahSweden
I think me just leaving could get her to realise how she behaves, saying goodbye in a friendly manner I think appertain to most relations and if I just leave she could realise how I feel about her behaviour.
How to interpret her actions around this? Is she testing me or boundaries around therapy?
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You do have a tendency to analyze everything a t does . . .
Sounds like sometimes she's just multitasking and moving on to the next task of the day. I doubt it is any tactic to test you.
I would encourage to not engage in testing her by being indirect and testing to see if she notices and reads your mind about what you need. That seems to be your usual way of things. Perhaps you might consider being direct, asking for what you'd like to see happen at the end of your sessions.