I wondered about that-the trouble is of course is that it kind of means it'll be down to me to make the move but how do I know the right time ,whether she does want the friendship?Having said that-this particular person is capable (despite depression etc) of going to any lengths to pursue someone if they want to-eg travelling a long way to meet with someone they'd formed an online relationship with-so maybe I should just leave it to her to act after all?