May I ask what kind of hang-ups you're struggling with?
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2 hang-ups come to mind immediately.

1. When I was around the age of 6 or 7, I went to Catholic school. The nuns told us that we would go to hell if we masturbated. Believe it or not, in the early 50's, that's what the Catholic church taught.
2. Any thoughts about sex with anyone else other than your wife is cheating.

I'm going to counseling to deal with my hangups so I can get rid of the guilt feelings that come behind an orgasm.