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Originally Posted by divine1966
Did they already know these women they were laughing with or just met? Wete they randomly there and guys approached and started laughing? You might be better off talking to friends about science then.
not everyone woman likes to laugh about silly things. If you find a woman who likes science then you two can talk about science. Yes approaching women you don't know and start talking about science might not work but so is talking about silly things! Women are all different. Many don't go to bars and don't talk to strangers there ( even if they went there with a group) etc etc and you have better luck meeting them in a library or advanced class or museum etc
I of course agree that being shy makes it much harder to approach people. Especially people you don't know. No doubt about that.
You might have to go about it differently
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It's a part of meetup meetings I attend. People don't know each others before, I guess. Last time a new girl came to the meeting, and she was approached by many guys, and she was engaged the whole meeting with them, at least until I left. I guess girls don't have to worry about this. By silly things, I didn't mean absolutely silly things. Of course not. I meant more casual things.
I approached some girls at first, and once I was a approached by a girl, but then I became more conscious again about talking to girls. Like going to a group of people already talking and I go there to join them, especially if there are girls, is a very difficult move for me to make. All girls will be engaged in talking with other guys.
I still don't understand how to talk to girls in a library or other places. It seems very awkward and maybe creepy.
I like to talk about science, but I can talk in different topics as well. I can be more casual. I was. The only challenge is to approach. In this meetup guys are ready to interrupt of course, which makes me conscious that I need to compete. Which is something I don't like to even think about.