Not sure if this belongs here. Let me explain. I love my son though sometimes he says really mean things to me and it hurts real bad he is 9. I tell my husband but he just excuses his behavior . So my son just keeps doing it. It isn't like I can just get up and leave. If my husband is working. I can't leave him here alone and he only does it when we are together, never when his father is around and he denies it when his father asks him about it. I kind of feel like my husband thinks I am a liar. I am depressed and have a lot on my plate and when he does this to the point I break down and cry, I end up hurting myself with meds. Not to die but enough to have a few days in the hospital. This has been happening since October of 2015 but it is getting worse. To the point where I have ended up in ICU once with respiratory failure and once for rhabdomyolosis (spelling) never do they suspect too many drugs in my system. I know this is dangerous but I can't stop. And I don't think it will until my son learns to keep his mouth shut. Sorry to be blunt like that but true.