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Old Apr 20, 2016, 11:51 AM
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Originally Posted by atisketatasket View Post
Spending a ridiculous amount of time and energy trying to save ex-husband and future ex-husband from themselves is partly responsible for getting me in the mess I am today...so I think this is quite wise.

The Queen Mum really liked her gin and dubonnet.
The first therapist I ever saw - back when I was in my mid 20s - once told me that whatever other issues I had, I was the least co-dependent woman she had ever had as a client.
Of course, she also said that she thought sometimes I ran into difficulty because when I really wanted information I could appear pugnacious rather than merely curious.
That was actually the one useful piece of information I have gleaned from a therapist ever.
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Thanks for this!
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