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Originally Posted by motherme
Owned my own home for 26 years and found myself with health issues that left me no longer able to care for my property as I had done before.
For 2 years my youngest daughter had been asking me for 2 years to move to Texas with her husband and my thirteen year old granddaugter.
stated that I had ruined her whole life because she was the result of that .
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I'm unclear as to how exactly Her Life is Ruined over a marriage between yourself and her father that included a tremendous amount of spousal abuse?
With your oldest daughter mentioning trying a relationship and with a 2year push to move in with your youngest daughter followed by one of the most cold and bizarre welcomings that I've heard of, I question the health of either her marriage or the state of her own emotional state of mind? If your first husband was abusive, there's a strong probability that he had a MI which can genetically pass along. Or if she's having marital struggles and experiencing abuse herself, then that could also explain pent up resentment and rage.
You offered family counseling. She refused.
Why does your oldest daughter believe you need to contact her sister?
Sorry you had to go through that.
Are you at peace in your hometown? Is everything otherwise ok?
