your thread is called question but I dont see a question... are you asking how to do something, are you asking whether you are doing the right thing... I could go on but only you know what question you were going to ask about...

based on what you posted

I see that you have co consciousness (the ability to know who your alters are, what they are thinking, what they are doing and why.... all those kinds of things that comes with co consciousness)

maybe as you are packing and moving you can think inside or talk inside or aloud saying things like...yes it is scary to move and I know that some of you are thinking we cant be happy. rather than think about happiness how about thinking about how in this new place there will be plenty of room for (an activity that those who think everyone shouldnt be happy, likes to do or has always wanted to do)

my point include them in the process so it doesnt feel like only one or two are making this hard decision to move. make it a family affair where everyone is included, everyone's point of view is considered.

heres a question to think about... in the past when decisions to move had to be made what was the circumstances... one time when I had to move due to circumstances beyond my control it made me angry. at first I thought it was a dissociative thing. but then my treatment provider and I started talking about the move and how unfair it was for management to sell the property and not tell the tenants, just one day get a 30 day notice due to property sale. I realized that anger and child like thoughts\behaviors of wanting to throw a temper tantrum, break things and yell scream and what have you was a completely normal reaction to the situation. my treatment provider told me that its perfectly normal for people to do this when life changes out of our control happen. depression and anger are very high on the list of feelings people normally do have when facing something like having to move.

now that I know in non dissociative \normal situations sometimes moving does naturally cause a person to feel angry... my opinion is so why not the same for dissociative people right,

my point is maybe this feeling you are having is completely normal given the situation.

my suggestion if this continues to bother you contact your treatment providers. they will be able to help you release these anger feeling regardless of what the root cause is.