To all due respect I think this thread was about artchic and how SHE wants to proceed to do things right , not about how s4ndm is doing things in his healthy ways . It is good that you have that much insight and have no problem saying no or that you never had casual relationships or casual sex that it's all come easy to you. This thread isn't about you though .

And if it was that easy for op, she wouldn't ask us valid questions and no one would ever end up in bad situation and we would all live happily ever after. Just because things are so easy for you doesn't mean making decision is easy for others.

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