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Originally Posted by divine1966
To all due respect I think this thread was about artchic and how SHE wants to proceed to do things right , not about how s4ndm is doing things in his healthy ways . It is good that you have that much insight and have no problem saying no or that you never had casual relationships or casual sex that it's all come easy to you. This thread isn't about you though .
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with all due respect, I didn't make it about me, I used my experience as an example as to what I was saying and my original response was related to artchic. I am not sure how I made it about me or anyone did? I also in my second response was saying something to clarify what I meant about how making good choices in a new relationship (still related to archic's situation) isn't decided by level of libido.
I never made it about me, please, I used it as an example from life in effect I also added that I've dealt with this too. If you think I'm claiming this is easy you're wrong. My intent was to state my experience because in truth I do understand how it can be something that's not all that easy - I've been there. >.>
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And if it was that easy for op, she wouldn't ask us valid questions and no one would ever end up in bad situation and we would all live happily ever after. Just because things are so easy for you doesn't mean making decision is easy for others.
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To IMPLY that any of this is easy to me or that I've even made it sound as though it is is simply not listening to what I said and writing off my thoughts here. "JUST BECAUSE THINGS ARE SO EASY FOR YOU" Why would you even go this far? I never said it was easy, I quite clearly made the point of saying that I would not have been able to do this earlier in my life, so it's more of a statement saying, I understand, but take heart it is possible to change. >.>
Almost always Divine, I respect and like your comments but I feel that you're off base here making it seem like I made this about me.