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Originally Posted by divine1966
I think "discount shelf" comment was in regards to you not valuing yourself high enough. Yes he goes to great length to be able to continue stalking you, but it's not like he is nice kindhearted high class gentleman. He is kind of opposite of that. I think people are trying to tell you that you deserve better. Even if just online, it could be with someone less scary and more pleasant.
Have you ever skyped or face time? After a year in a relationship do you know how each other looks?
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That is fair enough. I agree, he doesn't present as a high class gentleman.
His attention is flattering, though, in a way. Its not like I never get attention from anyone and this is the only guy that does. That isn't the case. But he has a charming appeal about him.
I have seen pictures and he is very above average in looks. He is a very attractive, appealing, charming person. And not just my opinion, I have seen others respond to him that way, too.
Which makes it confusing, because why would a handsome charming man need to pay for prostitutes instead of just picking up girls and dating like normal guys do?
He's crazy...I guess that's why. He's not interested in a normal pursuit and relationship. He prefers things weird and off and creepy....
And I suppose I must also. I have found his attention flattering. But at the same time, creepy and weird and he seems to want to scare me. And when he wants to, he starts giving me nightmares. Other times when he wants to he is a very sweet and charming guy.
Its a very, very strange dynamic.
Not sure what I can do. Go along with it for now, I guess, since I doubt it will ever go past the fantasy stage. We are a 12 hour plane flight apart. I'm not making that trip and I highly doubt he is either.