Maybe stop all the comparing your doing to others around you?

Everyone is unique. Your overthinking, again.

Just throw yourself out there . Sure you may get shot down, most likely your brother has been shot down many times,, he just doesn't tell you all about it.. everyone gets told no for any number of reasons .. Its just the reality

But until your out there asking a woman out .... you will forever stay in this sad circle your seemingly chained yourself to.