I told my ex, who is now my friend, that I was going out with a mutual friend. She got really mad and brought up the fact that his best friend may have raped me. I mean I didn't want to but I did for fear that he would rape me...so is that rape? I don't know. I hope this doesn't kill our already existing friendship...which doesn't look too good. What do I do? Should I stay with this guy or not?