I had a husband like you, once. He wouldn't allow me to talk to anyone that wasn't HIS choosing, he would follow me wherever I went, if he called me on the phone and it was busy, he'd get angry and ask me who I was talking to. First, I started lying to him. The I realized that what he felt for me was NOT love, it was ownership and control. Twelve yrs later and two kids, I divorced him. Would that I had never married him!

As for your poll, I don't know what your question is.