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Originally Posted by unaluna
She would be miserable coming back to the cold. And with no friends? Im not trying to argue with you, but my mother would voice the same fantasy i think just to torture me. Then she went ahead and made her own plans.
Can you and hubby and maybe eventually an estate planner look into her nursing home possibilities where she lives now? Are all her friends going someplace?
In the meantime, i will bow out of this conversation and wish you good fortune.
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im sorry, i didnt think you were trying to argue with me at all i guess i came across a bit worked up , it is just that im in a panic about the whole thing . eventually she will figure out a reason to contact me . or create some crisis she will want me to deal with and i need a plan and figure out what i want from all this. but you did nothing wrong and i totally appreciate your input