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Originally Posted by leomama
Hi. Not sure about the 2k. Can you remind me of that.
Why did I post about codependency? Because someone accused me of being codependent . That was very insulting to me because I have been addressing my codependency issues off and on for over 2 decades.
Then I get accused of using my PTSD as a crutch.
I can see that expressing my frustration at being told I was codependent did not help.
See I experience that as disordered behavior: insult someone by calling them codependent.
As I am not the only person who had a problem with the person who called me codependent .
Thank you for reading.
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I remember I didn't know he was married to someone else because you said you two are getting married and he spent 2k on psych visits and it will not work when you two are married. It was confusing to me now to find out you aren't even with him as a couple. Unless it is a different man.
I never said anything about codependency but I am not sure why you call it "accused". Codependency just is what one might struggle with, it's not something to be accused of. I don't think saying someone is codependent is an insult or accusations. People just base it of what you share. It is not offensive slur IMHO
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