Just don't tell them your suicidal...just don't tell them you have a plan....What's the point? The point of therapy is to be open and honest. Yet you're saying don't tell them certain things? Then that's not really being open and honest. If I can't be open & honest about my biggest problem then how can I expect them to help? If I can't expect them to help then why waste their time, my time, & my money.