Thanks everyone!! Its been interesting to hear everyones experience.. I'm getting a connection with my T.. At first I had alot of walls up for sure, but he's proven safe and trustworthy, even though I didn't know about having a male T , he's been the best ever! and I feel like I'm really trusting him now.. You know when you've thought about filtering what you tell them because you are just not sure,, but then you get to the point where it just "comes out" because you feel that safe..