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Old Sep 30, 2016, 10:48 PM
Luce Luce is offline
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Originally Posted by yagr View Post
No and yes. I don't have any friends except my wife but met a girl on the internet on a DID channel on ICQ (anyone remember ICQ?) and we met decades ago and spent a good deal of time together after that.

When was the last time you had a major 'ah-ha' moment with your DID and what was it?

For me, I just realized that I am not the original a week ago. I had never considered the possibility before a week ago and the moment I asked myself I pretty much knew.
I remember something about ICQ.
The last major aha moment was a few days ago... I realized the reason I could not stick up for myself in the current work situation (well, more 'own' the experience of my dissociated selves) was because I still do not own their experiences with past abuse. I knew there was a block as I could not bring myself to verify their experiences - but something prevented me from being able to do it - and I didn't know what it was. Now I know.
So I realized I have some work to do around that.

How long have you been in therapy all up?