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Originally Posted by Rose76
I agree with the posters above regarding the photos. You look a bit intimidating - like you would tell somebody off in a heartbeat. Try having someone take a photo of you looking at something, rather than into the lens. Hold a pet or a beachball, but look like you don't know you are being photographed. And, for the purposes of the profile-photo, lose the glasses. I wear glasses 24/7, myself, so I know it's part of who I am, but a guy wants to see you without a barrier in front of your face.
Some people just photograph better than others, and they are not necessarily better looking. Anyone with fears about their attractiveness tends to look strangely into the camera . . . not relaxed and comfortable and happy. Sometimes it's better for the camera to catch you at an angle, rather than squarely, straight-on.
I thought your written profile was more or less okay, but I would absolutely not put wanting to get married in my "intent." That surely scares off some. Slow down. Start with wanting to find someone to have good times with.
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But again changing my intent is again lying. I want to get married in my life. So if I say I am looking for a relationship, thats all the guy may think, and he may never purpose to me, because hey he may end up being a guy that doesn't believe in marriage or ever thought of it. I have come across a lot of guys that do that sort of thing.
I have found guys on those dating sites that are also looking for marriage and I message them but they don't message back, WHY because I am ugly.