I wasn't even seeing this guy. just some one at work I've been texting.
he went totally quiet on me for a few days then sends me this...

I want to see your views before I say mine

hey I've been doing some thinking and it's time to call this a day. I understand you not being able to come out whenever you wanted but if you wanted to actually see me outside of work you would have made it happen by now.

I know that if the positions were reversed I would have made sure I knew the potential dates that we could have gone out before I saw my parents and then tried really hard to see if there was a way they could have looked after my child for one evening so that I could have met you...even if it was just for a couple of hours. I could be wrong, but I'm fairly sure that did not happen.

I can handle not being your number one priority. I have said from the beginning that I have no intention of trying to force myself to be that, but I needed to know that I was at least somewhere on the first couple of pages and I simply don't see any sign of that. I don't consider myself a needy guy, but I think most guys would start to suspect there is something wrong.

I really really like you but I think I just have to come to terms with the fact that you don't want the same things I want and exercise a little self preservation. You are all the things I've said you are...beautiful, clever, kind ....and even funny...I meant every word and those things will never change. You are right to be proud of who you are and from what I have seen and learnt, you are an amazing mum.

I don't really know what else to say other than that this totally sucks willys and I wish we could have made things work. Obviously the last thing I want is for any awkwardness between us so if you will have me, I am still keen to be close friends

Xxx