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Originally Posted by Sad Mermaid
Do you have other friends? Do you have any friend who plays a neutral, rather than supportive, role with respect to you? Better yet, do you have a friend whom you support? You will feel more secure if you give, rather than receive, support now because your friend said hurtful things about how you were in the role of a receiver of support. I think it is best not to seek another supportive friend but to switch roles and have a neutral or a reverse relationship with somebody else.
Crying is good - it means that you won't harbor those emotions for later when they can become a depressed mood, but express them now.
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---yes this is a very big world. Of course it feels more comfy to go on w the same friend. But somehow you and this person dont fit now or indefinitely. Looking for someone else may bring you some great new ideas and experiences. My brother just ditched me and i,had to drop a bff who was lying a lot, just taking a lot of shortcuts in dealing with me because her life was more fast paced.
I sense a similarity here. Find the wonderful new people that fit better. I have. im still cultivating them, but its worth it.