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Originally Posted by Anna72914
So basically to teach a child that the opinion of others is paramount.
I'm 23 and I can't sleep without a stuffed animal. People know this, and a few have judged me but as far as I'm concerned they can just get over it.
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The number of kids I've come across who have had their own private secrets they would not want others to know is pretty high, stuffed toys, bed wetting - all of which would get them ridiculed.
I really don't think shame is helpful given the scenario.
OP I'm sorry you and he have been through the trauma you have, it really isn't surprising he needs to keep you near given the history.
Pushing him away may cause further upset, I think further reassurance from you is probably the best you can do for your son.