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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
People are monsters V, you've been exposed to some of the worst of them.
Don't let them taint your beautiful soul.
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That is the thing. Some of my cynicism is defense from the **** I deal with.
You are right. I do need to keep my idealism.
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Don't try to be what you think the world wants you to be. Be yourself and find your own way, your own clique, your own group of friends and you will be much happier. Toss away the notion that there is some ideal set of personality traits that spell out "lovable" We all are to some, and not to others, so don't mold to the things you are resistant to being and find ways to enhance your own personal traits and style.
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You are right. I do know I am good person who does good thing. It should really not matter I curse while doing it and toss inappropriate jokes. Those who been there, those that know... they get it. Those from outside... well, that is another story, but... I will never explain or prove myself to them.
I do think I love myself... but I sometimes scare myself too.
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You say you are actively trying to change bad parts of your character but you also wonder if you even have to do that when people should accept you for who you are. Maybe you can weigh the consequences of 'changing' against 'not changing'. Which will have better consequences in the long-run?
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I am not going to change my values, I just need to sorta... deal with traits that might be result of traumas, I think. That might damage me in the long run, I am afraid.
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